719 days


When you were a little girl

you used to leave messages in our shoes

one day a quarter and two nickels,

once an old happy meal toy

a button from your favorite shirt

I would put my shoes on at the door

and limp through the rows of mint

that over grew the bend in the walkway

there I would be -a spectacle to the neighbors

leaning on a post in the driveway with my shoes off

I've been missing you lately...

719 days since you left this world

The wild, untamed pain has gentled some

in these past two years

It's not spinning completely out of control like it used to

when I first found out 

that you had injected yourself with a drug 

that killed you



there are times I sense your presence like when you were alive

like when you were a girl leaving messages in our shoes

I wonder what I would say to you now

If I could put ink to paper

and if you had a shoe that I could leave it in...

(white Nikes with a black swish

that you cleaned every night with a wet paper towel -

'cause you loved them so much)


Come back

it would say, in neat little rows 

come back
come back
come back
come back
come back





Comments

  1. Sherry Blue Sky7 February 2018 at 21:29

    Oh, my friend, my heart leaped when i saw your link, then sank as i read your poem. I am so very sorry. You have lived our worst nightmare. Somehow you have survived. Those lines, come back, come back, come back.........heartbreaking....... My email has changed. I am in Tofino now. Email me, we'll talk. wildwomantwo@gmail.com

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  2. Magical Mystical Teacher7 February 2018 at 21:33

    The shoe may be invisible, but you have left a visible and heartfelt message.

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  3. Susan7 February 2018 at 22:03

    OH. Wow! This is the pebble in her shoe, this is a gift in mine to hear the loss, the grief, the memories, the love. You will touch so many with these words. Sadness and peace.

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  4. Red Rose Alley7 February 2018 at 23:17

    I'm not sure who you are talking about here, but I'm so sorry your loved one left this world.

    ~Sheri

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  5. Rosemary Nissen-Wade7 February 2018 at 23:45

    So very sad, and utterly imparts every detail so it seems my own. The poem is itself a message; may the writing ease your heart a little.

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  6. Sumana Roy8 February 2018 at 01:38

    It's my story as it were. So heartbreaking.

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  7. rallentanda8 February 2018 at 09:34

    Heartbreaking. Your grief and loss beautifully expressed

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  8. Myrna R.8 February 2018 at 10:57

    This is heart wrenching. Thank you for sharing your loss, your pain. I do my best to empathize. But I'm sure I don't know what it's like to walk in your shoes.

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  9. hyperCRYPTICal8 February 2018 at 15:23

    Your words tore at my heart - I cannot imagine your pain. Loss is a terrible thing, and of a child, especially so.
    I send the the kindest of regards and loads of love and hugs.
    Anna

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  10. ~Lavender Dreamer~8 February 2018 at 15:42

    How sad...you write beautifully! We all feel your pain. I've gone back and read more of your blog and appreciate your writing!

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  11. WildChild478 February 2018 at 16:14

    what a fascinating and coded messaging system .... and such a heartbreaking story .... so sensitively offered to us here ... what and those words .... come back come back are just so intense - a wish that crosses time and age

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  12. Jonell w Harrison8 February 2018 at 16:48

    Reading just now reminded me why I left a 'note to self' nudging me to stay In touch....come back now and them to visit a Blogger who's face I have never seen...voice I've I have never heard because the the writing just flat out grabs my attention...the simple, simple unpretentious words . Your writing style encourages and challenges me. ..I'll beback and try again - I must-it's been several months since I posted on my own blog & I'm trying to figure out why etc. Later

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